How Do I Respond To A Girl Saying My Dick Is Small When It Is Not?

Most men are awkward when it comes to making conversation about their body size and ratios. We asked men and found out one FAQ: how a person should respond to a girl saying his penis is small when it's not?

Penis size is a significant source of anxiety for any man. And when a woman you are dating raises concern about your apparent size dick, then the humiliation is beyond comprehension.

Although women are known to be more compassionate than men, at least generally, not all women share the same EQ.

Sometimes, women don’t think about the impact of their comment on a guy’s penis size.

But in some cases, they may simply be surprised at the size you have got. Maybe because they expected more.

So men would consider this an insult and do away with the relationship. But actually, if you can act like the bigger person here, just such a remark does not have to mean the end of a connection.

There could be more to talk about here. After all, men themselves, not all of them understand everything there is to know about the penis.

So when a woman confuses your size as small, when you know for sure you aren’t, it’s time for a real Q&A.

It could just be a misunderstanding of a common idea. Why not think of a discussion time?

Maybe you love your girl and may what to address this issue so that it doesn't impact on their relationship.

But how do you do this? You should sit her down for an educational talk about penis and relationships.

You should also ask her about her opinions on what a big penis should look like.

Ask her what her normal expectations of a man’s penis look like. After that, you can dig deeper by asking her where and how she got those ideas.

Girls are also like boys; they get their ideas about size and sexuality from external sources when they were growing up, right?

It’s all the same. Except for the fact that girls don’t actually have a penis. So their ideas might differ from you. Don’t be afraid to start this kind of conversation.

But the most important part is that you should also ask her why she thinks a big penis is important.

By asking these questions you could also gain insight as to whether or not the first and initial remark said about your penis size was something super serious or if she was just casually mentioning it.

It may just be the case that she wasn't even complaining about your dick size.

Right? Right? She could just be mentioning it whilst being oblivious of the possibility of your ego getting bruised.

You could be the one who is taking the comment too seriously. Ego issues afflict everybody, don’t be too hard on yourself.

On the other hand, if her initial remark was said in a way that made it looks like she was covertly "complaining" or showing disappointment, a more serious discussion is needed.

But don’t go about it with yelling, okay? You need to have a discussion with a cool head. Otherwise, you could end up fighting and hurting each other instead.

Two people who are in a committed relationship can't have this kind of hard feeling towards each other, lest that relationship will just turn sour and everybody ends up with hurt feelings.

This is especially true if you don't particularly agree that your penis is small.

You already know that your penis isn't small and that it falls within average dimensions. So you need to bring this aspect to her attention.

Referring to available data, correct and inform her that your member isn't that small after all.

Here is a hint: the average "normal" penis sizes range from 3.3 inches to 5.5 inches. This is what is considered normal. See if she cares about that.

So, okay, maybe you are not a 6-inches guy, but is that bad?

The female anatomy says that the pleasure point inside the vagina is only 2-inches deep, so there's no reason that an average dick can't do the job.

Still, if there is indeed something that she feels dissatisfied about sex with you, this has got to be something else.

Maybe she was implying your dick was not pleasuring enough because you are not too romantic.

So, actually, maybe the problem is not your size. So, ask her clearly if this was the case.

Next, tell her penis sizes to fluctuate under several circumstances. You are tiny when it's cold, and you are lonely. You can also explain that your penis grows in size when she excites you. 

It could just be that the both of you simply need a deeper connection in this relationship. Maybe sex isn't the only thing that is bothering you.

Maybe you are too busy with work that your mind was never fully present that you couldn't get as big as you think you should be.

Or maybe even she was having a lot of other thoughts that she wasn't fully present with you, which causes you to lack excitement.

At any rate, talking about such matters should never be a heated debate, lest you destroy any trust and positive feelings.

So, when initiating such a discussion, make sure you two are relaxed and in a good mood. If it helps, talk about this over tea time when you have pleasant foods and calming drinks.

Further, inform her that many well-hung men also have lousy relationships with their partners.

So, size is not the only parameter on to base relationships on. There is much more to harmonious companionships than a penis.

You may also want to bring attention to her anatomy. The best place to talk about is the size of her breast.

Mention that you are not particularly concerned about her breasts and that it doesn't matter so much.

This approach will make her conscious about her body while reassuring her that you don't worry about them.

A relationship is about honesty, trust, and compatibility. So be ready to back your words with actions.

Treat your girlfriend well always and show that your care about her feelings. Discuss new things and develop hobbies that she likes.

Be well-groomed, and take care of your health. Watch your weight and engage in physical exercises.

This way, she will find you attractive in many other ways than solely on your penis size.

Conclusion

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Your female partner may make comments about the size of your penis. When she mentions it being small, you could feel insecure.

How you handle this situation has a bearing on your future relationship. Here is what you should do.

First, sit her down and enquire why she is concerned about the size. Also, provide her with facts about the average penis size.

But try to understand if this dissatisfaction is about your connection, availability, or romance.

Discuss your penis features in a candid and relaxed mood.