Everyone is curious about the sex positions that can help them last longer in bed with fantastic sex. We found the five best sex positions to revitalize your relationship, and you should be thankful.
- Spooning and slow sex
If you think that sex should always be fast-paced and wild like in Hollywood movies, you may simply be missing out on life.
Sometimes, slow sex is super nice to do with the love of your life, and if you know how to do this right, you can bring your relationship to the next level.
Quick sex can often require a lot of energy and if you do that all the time, you may unconsciously associate sexual activity with being tired afterward.
That is why after a while either you or your partner may turn to become a little lazy for sex. If you think that this is happening to your relationship, you may now want to try slow sex.
Spooning is the best sex position to begin learning this. It is relaxing, and increases intimacy and bonding, according to a 2019 Healthline publication titled “A Beginner’s Guide to Spooning.”
You can spoon as a big or small spoon. In the big spoons, the lady (with small stature wraps behind the man), while the opposite is the small spoon.
There are other variations. The spoon in a drawer is another spoon variation where the lady lay on the chest of the man who sleeps facing up, with legs intertwined.
Spooning is comfortable because you both can just be lying side by side on the bed and there’s little energy involved here.
- Sex on top of a running washing machine
Feeling like going wild a little bit? For some people, their sex life may be boring exactly because they are always playing it safe.
If this is the case with you and you feel that you need new colors in your sex life, you need to try something a little unusual which may be seen as a little naughty.
For starters, sex doesn’t need to happen only on the surface of a bed, right?
You can even do it standing up or better yet, on top of a running washing machine. The female
in this position will enjoy it so much because the machine delivers solid vibration.
Meanwhile, for yourself, this experience can easily bring your libido to the roof because of the adrenaline rush.
Just make sure you both find a comfortable position when doing this to prevent unpleasant injury to the body.
- Reversed cowboy
The reversed cowboy sex position is the woman on top in reverse. So, for the woman, instead of riding the man’s cock whilst facing him, she does it facing the other way.
Many men enjoy this sex position because not only do they get to take a break for a few good minutes, but those minutes become even better because they get to watch in full their partner’s ass.
A lot of men find that an unobstructed view of a woman’s ass is extremely arousing.
This position is not only good for men, though, as some women also find it easier to stimulate their clitoris when they are facing the other way.
This is because they don’t have the man’s torso hindering their movement.
It’s a total win-win solution, so try this position from time to time if you want to enliven your relationship in the bedroom.
- Side to side
You may have heard about spooning and that is when a couple lies on their side and one partner penetrates the other from behind.
While the spooning sex position can be highly erotic, there is another version of it that can be just as highly romantic.
This is the side-to-side position in which, like the spooning sex position, both people lie on their sides, but they are facing each other.
The way the man penetrates them is by having the woman’s leg positioned across his hip.
This position will enable both of you to focus on each other’s faces. You can communicate with just your souls and without words and enjoy feeling each other’s bodies on a very intimate level.
You can embrace your entire body while also maintaining close eye contact. You can begin this sex pose as missionary then turn to the side without disentangling.
Since there is no longer any gravitational force to contend with, according to the Women’s Health publication, this pose offers more relaxation.
You may find a new sense of appreciation for the beauty of your love after you have done this for the first time. This position is also comfortable and slows to do.
- Sex on the sofa
Most of the time, people have sex in the bedroom and this can become tedious after a while.
Although we have to say the bedroom is one of the best places to have sex because the soft surface of a bed is safe and comfortable.
But do you know where else has a nice and comfy surface fit for sex? The living room with a sofa.
A sofa is generally larger than a chair and with its soft but limited surface, you can perform kinky sex positions which you may not be able to achieve in the bedroom.
A change of scenery is also usually helpful to bring your libido to a different height.
It’s fun to have sex on the sofa or couch because you can also easily change to a sitting position without much trouble.
You can also light up some scented candles in the living room to make things even more romantic.
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- The CAT
This is one of the easiest and most highly exciting sex styles. It brings closeness, warmth, and trust between the partners.
The CAT is a short form of coitus alignment technique. An upgrade of missionary with all its benefits and without its boredom.
A Men’s Health newsletter titled “The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) Is a Sex Position You Didn’t Know You Needed,” confirms that the CAT pose stimulated the clitoris more naturally, bringing the best of the two worlds.
Though it’s a challenge to get the right alignment that hits both the clitoris while also allowing penetration, once this angle is aligned, the situation to the clitoris, G-spot, and vagina is immense.
To perform a CAT, let your female partner lie down in a missionary pose. In this case, though, she bends her legs slightly on the knees while you prop her waist up a bit using a pillow,
You then set yourself between her knees and penetrate her while titling your upper torso up, not leaning on her as with the missionary style.
The pose focuses more on clitoral stimulation and less on deep penetration. The tilted pelvis of your female partner and your raised angle allows for constant clitoral stimulation.
Slow rocking and grinding can create a rhythm that you can build on slowly. At the same time, you enjoy the eye gaze and marvel at each other’s naked sight.
- Full wrap
If you want to stimulate the G-spot for an extended time and incessantly, then this is the way to go. As the name suggests, your lady wraps her leg around your waist.
The pose delivers close and full body contact between you two. It allows you to kiss each other freely.
Besides, you can use your free hands to caress and gyrate your legs to increase the sensation.
The full wrap pose dictates that your partner lays on her back and lifts her legs. You go on your knees and insert yourself facing her, all the while supporting yourself with your hands.
Once you are comfortably set, she may wrap her legs on your back to draw you deeper into her mound.
Her hands are free to hold and support her lifted knees, or to caress your chest, head, hair, or back. If you are acrobatic enough, you can use one hand to prop yourself while using the other to squeeze and fondle her breasts.
