The mystery behind the G-spot, also known as Gräfenberg spot, is still unknown and mysterious but appealing. Here are five easy and simple tips for men to hit women’s G-spot.
- Stimulate her with your fingers
Many men have heard the confessions of women who say they find it really hard to orgasm through penile penetration alone. So, this is why it’s necessary for guys to learn to hit a woman’s G-spot.
Did you know that orgasm through the G-spot is some 10 times more intense than regular orgasms? Yup, girls who have had it can tell you that.
In order to bring her to the blissful point of no return, you shouldn’t rely only on your straight penis.
Instead, use your fingers to stimulate her in the crooks and nooks which can’t be easily touched by your penis.
A back and forth movement whilst bending your fingers a tiny bit can easily do the trick.
You’ll know you’ve hit the spot when you feel a rough patch within the vagina. That’s the section of the wall that has the G-spot.
WebMD provides information suggesting that using fingers is an effective way to access the G-spot. By using a firm yet gentle “come-hither” curling motion during stimulation, you may feel a slight increase in firmness, roughly the size of a quarter. Your female partner may communicate a pleasurable sensation, indicating that you have found the correct area. On the other hand, she might feel a sensation of needing to urinate, which suggests that you are stimulating the right spot but at an inappropriate time. It is crucial for her to be sufficiently aroused overall before her body interprets the touch as sexually pleasurable.
- Position your pelvis a little higher
Although you may have heard that most women can’t orgasm with just penile stimulation, it still does not mean you can’t ever achieve this.
Well, to be frank, this is a feat only those well-endowed men would be able to achieve, so?
Anyway, there is a bit of a trick to this seemingly elusive endeavor, and that all rely on the position of your pelvis during intercourse.
Most guys would only know that penile penetration during missionary position is the most basic of them all, but this position also has a high chance of hitting the G-spot if you know how to tweak it.
Since you usually can’t go too deep inside of her when in the missionary position, what you can do to hit deeper is position your pelvis a little higher.
This trick is also great for when you can’t hit the G-spot, you still can make her orgasm through the clitoral stimulation.
- Use a vibrator
If you think you have had a hard time hitting her G-spot because your penis is not long or big enough, do not fret. There is always a dildo and other vibrating toys that can help you along the way.
Using a dildo is pretty immensely sexy because this thing usually comes in unusual shapes that are designed to work better than the penis.
It would be even better if you can get a sex toy that has the vibration function because it will stimulate your woman even more.
According to Women’s Health, G-spot toys are sex toys designed specifically for stimulating the G-spot, which is a spongy and thickened area of tissue located around one to three inches inside the vaginal wall. These toys, commonly in the form of vibrators, are created with the intention of enhancing pleasure and facilitating orgasm.
What you need to do with these sex toys is to carefully explore the crooks and nooks inside the vagina to find the G-spot.
You will know when you have hit the right spot when you see your partner behave more intensely and moan louder.
You should tell her to tell you when you’re doing the right thing because you can’t feel the G-spot yourself if you’re using a sex toy.
- Doggy style makes it easier
A lot of men will agree that many other sex positions give the thrill of trying out unusual moves, but nothing can compare to the doggy position for its full-frontal penetration.
And, good news, this is also one of those positions that can increase your chance of hitting that sweet G-spot. But there is a tiny bit of work here, as you can’t easily hit that elusive G-spot by just doing the usual doggy style.
You can begin by doing the doggy style as per usual (we know a lot of guys enjoy this position so much), and then, from there you can have your partner slide down a little bit so her elbows touch the bed surface.
That way she will position her pelvis higher and you can more easily penetrate deep into her vagina.
Also, according to an article published on Insider, a particular position is considered effective for targeting the G-spot. In this position, your partner’s thrusting motion will stimulate the G-spot. Moreover, it allows for flexibility in adjusting the height and angle of access. For example, you can switch from being on your hands and knees to lying more flat on your belly, offering variation in the sensation and depth of penetration.
Make sure you do a circular motion every now and then to make sure you cover all of the vaginal walls to hit that G-spot.
- Use lubrication to open her up
If you are not going to up your wetting game, you will have a harder time hitting the G-spot.
The basics of hitting the G-spot is for you to hit all her vaginal walls so that you can finally touch the right place with your penis.
In order to do this, if your girl happens to take longer to get wet, you can get some help from a quality lube that is water-based.
Using lube will make sure your penis can penetrate more smoothly and deeply. That way, you have a higher chance of touching all possible spots on her vaginal walls.
You may also want to try the doggy style or use a sex toy for a better chance of stimulating the G-spot so that your girl can climax with more intensity.
Make sure your lube is of good quality and not already expired.
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- The Spoons
The spoon or soft serve is one of the easiest styles to discover the G-spot without putting too much effort.
It provides an acute angle for your penis to hit your partner’s G-spot. It also affords you free hands to explore other sensual zones while admiring your lover.
You can kiss her when she turns her face backward towards you. Still, your legs may straddle to increase skin contact.
To do it get behind your female companion laying on her side facing away from you. To allow ease of entry, she can lift her upper leg slightly to receive you.
And once in her, she can close the leg again or even cross them to induce more friction due to the closed pelvis.
Slow grinds and rocking movement elevates the excitement while you move in and out of her mound. Use one hand to support yourself on your elbow.
Meanwhile, the other hand is free to explore her sensual areas.
- The Wheelbarrow
This man-standing sex style is for sexual athletes since the stamina levels required by both partners are high. But the ultimate reward justifies the effort put in.
This standing pose allows for a deep penetration which nails your partner’s G spot on the head. You can stand, use a bed, a table, or even a chair.
To begin this style, allow your partner to get on her fours in front of you. Grab her by the knees from behind and slowly lift the legs to position her pelvis to your groin.
Let her legs wrap around your thighs, clamping at your lower buttock. Using your hands to hold her by the waist as you penetrate her.
Since this style allows for deep penetration, ensure you enter her after sufficient lubrication and foreplay. Thrush her while she supports herself with her hands.
You get to enjoy her rearview. Grinding on the clenched vagina entrance only accentuates the sensation.
