Sex is not like all the things shown in movies or books; in fact, it’s the complete opposite. Here are some embarrassing yet perfectly normal scenarios that happen during sex, and you’d be surprised.
- Farting in the middle of the act
So many people dread at the idea of farting in front of someone they like, but this is such a strange notion because farting itself is such a natural part of the human biology.
Still, because of the stigma (and probably because of the fear of annoying someone else with our not-so-flattering aroma) so many people don’t want to get caught up farting whilst in the middle of a sexual act.
However, for your peace of mind, you should know that farting during sex is a perfectly normal thing to happen, in spite of your own embarrassment.
The friction of genitals naturally creates a sense of pleasure through the relaxation of some muscles down there, this can lead to someone passing gas unconsciously.
If this happens to you regularly, it could be a good idea to avoid eating pungent foods before sex just so you don’t embarrass yourself too much in front of your partner
- You get some poop on the genitals
Let’s be honest, sex can sometimes be messy.
It can get smelly and literally dirty. This may especially be the case with couples who enjoy anal sex, which let’s be honest again, not everybody can enjoy.
Now, with anal sex, it is possible that the penetrating partner will catch some poop upon entering and re-entering the anus.
According to the report featured on MensXP, when participating in anal sex or anal stimulation, there is a potential for contact between fecal matter from the rectum and the genital region or the immediate area surrounding the anus. This occurrence is influenced by the close physical proximity of the anus to the genitals.
This is actually perfectly normal, but if you are embarrassed or if your partner gets uncomfortable with it, it would be a good idea to do certain things before the act.
For instance, you should get rid of your bowel insides before sex and make sure that you clean up really well afterwards.
Just water with a mild soap should be enough.
Another thing you can do, which can also be important to prevent bacteria transfer, is to have wet tissues nearby for when you need to wipe poop off someone’s penis.
- You feel uncomfortable with the size difference of your boobs
Inexperienced men may not know that a lot of women don’t actually have perfectly symmetrical boobs.
This is actually super normal because the boobs consist of tissues and glands that number differently on each breast.
However, if you are suddenly naked in front of this kind of unknowledgeable guy and he gets surprised to see your asymmetrical boobs, it is possible that you get embarrassed too.
Let him know in a non-defensive way that having asymmetrical boobs is a perfectly normal thing and most women’s breasts are like this.
However, if the size difference of your left and right boobs is too much to handle and you yourself feel uncomfortable, it is possible to get this issue fixed through surgery.
However, keep in mind that this kind of thing is not something for any woman to feel embarrassed about because this is just a natural occurrence of the female body.
- Your partner is surprised to see how hairy you are
Again, very young guys who haven’t got much experience in sex may get surprised to see that in reality, most women can be quite hairy.
They may have learnt about sex by watching porn and unconsciously think that all women are naturally hairless.
This can happen when they see a real woman’s actual physicality and when the guy is flustered, it is possible that the girl gets embarrassed by her own body, too.
You should know that this kind of thing happens quite a lot with young couples and people usually learn so much more after this kind of occurrence.
So, let yourself know that although such an event can be embarrassing for the both of you, it is perfectly normal and there is nothing wrong with not shaving your pubic hair completely.
As indicated in the report by SELF, individuals’ grooming routines can fluctuate with time. For instance, someone who typically shaves or maintains their body hair may have allowed it to grow, potentially surprising their partner during a sexual encounter. This scenario is more common among younger couples, but it’s important to note that there’s no need to feel ashamed or embarrassed, as it’s a natural part of evolving preferences and experiences.
You can still trim and groom your pubic hair for hygiene, though.
- Muscle spasm in the middle of the act
Some sex positions may just be so difficult to do that it is possible that one or both partners get muscle spasms right in the middle of an act.
Of course, if you are in the middle of a really hot act, getting a muscle spasm could be a mood killer.
But this can happen to anyone who is not physically super fit, so it is best to just laugh it off and give yourself the break your body needs.
If this occurrence bothers you because you want to be able to pull off complex sex positions, you could simply perform more exercises on the daily so that you become stronger and more flexible.
It takes time to get flexible, but it will be worth the effort, especially if you are the type that’s super into kinky sex positions that can often be hard to do.
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- Suddenly bleeding because your period has started
What are the chances of your period starting right in the middle of having intercourse? We are assuming they would have to be pretty slim, but they do happen nevertheless.
After all, a lot of women experience a surge of libido right before their period starts, so it is likely that you would want to be having a lot of sex before your period starts.
But then, an awkward situation could just occur when in the middle of intercourse you suddenly bleed. It could send some shock to both parties involved in the situation, right?
According to information published by Elite Daily, the unexpected onset of menstrual bleeding during sex can come as a surprise to both partners. This unexpected occurrence may briefly disrupt the sexual encounter and could lead to initial feelings of discomfort or embarrassment. However, it’s important to remember that this is a common and natural phenomenon, and it’s essential to approach it with understanding and a sense of normalcy.
Still, since this is just part of your natural biology, you should not feel bad for something like this to happen.
After all, it’s not like your body is a clock that has a set alarm for when bleeding begins to occur. So, just relax and clean up immediately if you are urged to do so.
- Gagging so hard you practically need a moment
Let’s all just admit it: sometimes giving a blowjob to a man with a huge penis can be awkward.
The thing is literally so big and maybe you are blessed with a small mouth and sometimes you just can’t help but gag when a deep-throat is involved in the act.
Of course, we all know that gagging is quite common, especially when the man is definitively well-endowed, but the awkward thing happens when you are gagging so bad and coughing so hard that you practically need a moment to catch your breath.
Some people will consider this coughing time to be a boner killer and may feel bad for needing a while to recover, but you should know that this is perfectly normal.
Ask your partner if they need a good performance or what? Of course you need to catch your breath!
