Nobody is perfect, and it’s completely fine if you don’t know how certain things work. Many men make mistakes during sex. Here are five common sex mistakes that men make, and they should avoid that.
- Pushing her head to get you a head
You may have seen this kind of act in porn movies when a guy pushes the lady’s head down to give him a blow job. This is a huge no-no in real life.
A lot of women hate it when their partners make them do the blow job by seemingly forcing them.
On the GirlsaskGuys website, head shoving is a common concern for most females. Women contend to have a terrible moment with this action.
These women mention that the act is degrading and has even led to choking instances. Others have hard throat inures as a result, hence this unsolicited action isn’t okay.
After all, not all women like giving blow jobs. So if you are a man who has been doing just that, stop it now.
That is a huge sign of disrespect towards your partner and more often than not, you’re going to ruin her mood for sexual by doing exactly that.
So, if your lady is in a bad mood and has lost all her interest, how can you have a satisfying session on a steamy night?
Next time you want her to give you the head, you better give her head first, and then she’ll want to do the same for you.
- Focusing on only penile penetration
This is one huge mistake a lot of men seem to still do: focusing the entire sex session on only penile penetration. Yeah, sure, penile penetration feels great to you, but what about her?
Many researchers have gathered that most women can’t reach orgasm just from penile penetration.
This is because the vagina has a more complex mechanism than the tip of a man’s penis, so there needs to be a different approach if you want to fully satisfy your partner.
A lot of women have reported that they have been able to orgasm when their men use their fingers or tongue to satisfy them in the sacred area.
So that should tell you to explore and be more creative than simply relying on your penis.
Don’t forget to spend at least 15 minutes on foreplay as well.
That small opening at the beginning of sex can significantly heighten your partner’s sensitivity to your next sexual stimulations and advances.
- Thinking that a big dick is the only important thing
It is an old tale about how men all over the world are so concerned about the size of their penis.
While such concerns can be understood, in reality, a lot of such men are simply overthinking things that don’t have much value.
Did you know that most women don’t care about the size of your dick? Like, fine if you have a big one and she’ll like that.
But even if you don’t, and as long as you don’t suffer from an actual condition called the ‘micropenis, she doesn’t care that much.
According to Huffpost publication “Does “Size” Matter for a Happy Sex Life?” undertook a sturdy to find whether or not this question is significant.
Out of 33 women interviewed, a third said it mattered, while the rest mentioned that how it’s used is what’s mattered more.
Still, another study involving 25 women also found that 84% were fine with any size. Meaning that size alone isn’t a significant factor in all sexual relationships.
The more important thing to think about is how you use your penis rather than simply about its size.
When it comes to great sex, it’s the techniques that count. How can you tease and play with your partner?
Are you treating her with respect and appreciation? Do you make her feel good about what you’re doing?
Those are the questions you need to focus on if you want to do better between the sheets.
- Unequal give and take
One mistake some men may continuously do is being greedy in bed.
What this means is that these men only think about satisfying themselves whilst forgetting the comfort, feelings, and pleasure of their partner.
It doesn’t matter what the relationship between you and her looks like, sex is still sex and there needs to be equal give and take and you want to achieve the highest level of satisfaction.
This is because you get very intimate with someone during sex, and if the other person feels bad or dissatisfied, you will subconsciously feel it too.
So you see that this may hamper your potential of reaching that highest level of pleasure.
Stop being selfish and start giving more from now on. Ask your partner what she likes and give it to her. You’ll feel good too as a result of knowing you’ve done something well.
- Looking and smelling bad
Do you think only women should look pleasant at all times? That is a big misconception, and that kind of thinking is dead. It’s super outdated.
Nowadays, with more of the world realizing equality between men and women, even women are voicing out their opinions about how they feel about their bed partners.
A lot of women don’t like it when their partner is smelling bad during kissing and sex. It makes them super uncomfortable and so they feel unable to perform at their max too.
When you think about it, most of the time, most women are very good at taking care of themselves and they try to look nice in front of their sexual partners.
So of course it’s only natural for them for expecting the same effort in return.
So get washing daily and don’t forget to groom yourself so you don’t look like a hobo.
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- Popping a male enhancement supplement minutes before action
Male enhancement supplements are different from male enhancement drugs like Viagra or Cialis. Whilst male enhancement drugs are meant to be taken just some 30 minutes before action, male enhancement supplements need to be taken first thing in the morning regularly.
Some men may confuse the mechanism of using a supplement and a drug and if you take the former only minutes or hours before initiating sex, you will not reap any benefits.
Of course, there are some exceptions with even male enhancement supplements; there are some varieties that indeed can be taken only minutes before getting into action.
But, these types of male enhancement supplements are a bit on the rarer side, so you want to make sure of that. So, when buying male enhancement products, make sure you know what you are buying so you can use them properly.
- Never entertaining the idea of morning sex
Wow, this is not necessarily a ‘sex mistake’ per se, but oh my, if you never entertained the idea of having sex first thing in the morning, you are missing out on a lot in life.
You may think that having sex first thing in the morning could be ineffective or a hassle. But the thing is, morning is the perfect time to be having sex.
Yes, more so than at night. In the evening, are you not already tired and beat by all of the work you did during the day? This does not make sex that vigorous anymore.
But in the morning? You are refreshed, rested, and in fact, your sex hormones are highest when you have just woken up. In the morning, you will find it easier to get hard and the sensations of pleasure you get are also heightened because of well-flowing blood circulation.
Besides, an article, “Health benefits of early morning sex” states that this affair produces better results which aren’t well known.
Sex in the morning improves your immunity, enhances your memory, and counts as a workout. Since your male sex hormones are the highest during this time, you have a higher sex drive and hence last longer in bed.
