The idea of knowing everything is absurd as there are always more things to learn, even for an experienced gay man. We enlist five sex tips for gay men that can make their sex lives better.
- Set up the mood with music
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a little romantic. You can set up nice music in the background to set the right mood for sex with your partner. And you know what?
Setting the mood for sex doesn’t always have to involve only romantic music. If you’re down to some wild sex and if it’s both of your preferences even metal music can set the right tone!
Who knows, maybe? So anyway, play some music in the background which you know you both will enjoy.
If you’re willing to go the extra mile, you can set even more of a romantic set up with flower petals and dimmed light. Who said only girls get to get treated like royalty?
Everybody likes a romantic gesture and when you pop a bottle of champagne with some romantic jazz, the mood will get so lifted up that sex simply feels better.
- Suggest subliminal messages
No, we are not talking about the subliminal messages meant to turn you into an X-man. We are talking about sending non-verbal signals to your partner.
Sometimes it can feel a bit daunting to have to be so vulgar in communicating what we would like our partner do to us in bed.
In that case, you can instead try to send signals during sex to subliminally tell your partner that you like what he is currently doing.
When he hits the right spot, moan harder, and say ?yes? if it’s okay with you. That way your partner will know what makes you feel good and can continue to do that longer and more often.
You can also slowly guide your partner to touch you in the places you like by looking into his eyes whilst guiding his hand to the place you want to be touched. That’s romantic and helpful!
- Lube and wide open
When it comes to gay sex, you can’t deny the importance of lube. Always lube, lube, and lube. That will only make things a lot easier and quicker to initiate into full-blown sex.
Unless of course, you are willing enough to work it until your rear is super magma and ready to receive the other’s dick without lube. Whoa! That should count for some super hot foreplay.
As outlined in a study featured on Flipboard, the presence of lubricant plays a pivotal role in elevating comfort levels during sexual activities, irrespective of whether they involve penetration or not. Lubrication effectively diminishes friction, thereby reducing the likelihood of discomfort, irritation, or even minor abrasions in the sensitive genital tissues. This, in turn, fosters an environment where sexual experiences are more enjoyable.
Aside from lubricating, in order to amplify your sexual pleasure, make sure you open wide the cheeks of your partner’s bum before penetrating. Like, open them really wide apart.
You want to make sure that the first entrance is smooth and without any painful hindrance. Then you breathe and enter and feel that electrifying bite to your dick.
Doing that before penetration also feels super good to your partner. So squeeze and tease until that sweet donut is ready to receive all your loving.
- Get busy with your hands
There is really a lot you can do with your hands even in gay sex. No breasts to fondle? So what? Your hands should never get lazy!
In accordance with discoveries from Men’s Health Forum, utilizing your hands in a variety of ways offers a non-verbal avenue for communication with your partner. Through the language of touch, you can express desires, passion, and tenderness, thereby nurturing a richer emotional and physical bond between you and your partner.
While rearing your bottom from his behind, you can use your hand to play with his schlong. You should know what feels good because you have the same anatomy.
So get busy and penetrate him from behind whilst stimulating his dick simultaneously. Not very many things can get better than that.
Although your partner can play definitely play with his own dick, it adds to his pleasure when you’re the one doing it for him.
In return, you can expect to get the same treatment when it is your turn being the bottom. Oh, and don’t forget to play gently with the balls and softly stroke the perineum while you are at it.
And surely don’t forget to breathe just because the feeling can get so intense.
- Suspenseful foreplay
There can be many times guys are simply impatient and can’t wait to get to the main act. But getting straight to the business may just be a waste of potential for getting a mind-blowing orgasm. You need to slow down, my friend.
So spend more time on foreplay. Tease your partner and explore his body. All people surely like a good sensual time.
When you start slow and remain steady in your teasing without penetration, you can easily build suspenseful excitement.
According to findings reported by Pride.com, engaging in suspenseful foreplay serves to nurture a profound emotional and physical connection between partners. This approach encourages both individuals to be wholly present and highly attuned to one another’s desires, resulting in a heightened level of passion and a more deeply gratifying sexual experience.
That way, when you finally get down to business you can enjoy more explosive sex. Plus, taking your time to get really wet and hot is a good thing in all kinds of sex.
Sure, if getting slow and steady is not exactly your thing you don’t have to do it like that every single time. But trying it out every now and then can be a really nice change of pace.
Plus, who would say no to the intensified orgasm?
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- Create synchrony
Sex is about togetherness. Getting to devour each other’s passion and calm their sexual tension. But what better way than synchronizing motion while also mimicking acts?
When just looking straight at each other eyes long enough could set your heartbeat together. And doing a duet with body movement makes better sex.
As a pro, you should imitate what your partner is conveying. When he’s kissing, deep-throating, or licking your member with his tongue, you could also reciprocate in the same manner and intensity.
Yet, you need to experiment and learn which moves ate fine. Some subs prefer being dominated and hence don’t like the dominant one to act like them.
So, even though you are copying his steps, you should infuse more masculinity and vigor in the process.
Still, mimicry brings a lot of passion and flow, since a person does to you what he enjoys. Hence when you give your sub what you get, but more vigorously makes you a pro in the game.
- Change locations
Sex is good in bed, and well prepared in advance. But there are no rules in sex. You can do it slowly and impromptu.
A pro remains a pro and doesn’t have to follow any laid guidelines. When the desire is overwhelming, you can do it anywhere.
Pick your partner by surprise. You could ambush him right at the entrance porch, outside the park, or in a car. Even when you are indoors, you can get grabby in the laundry area, kitchen top, and bedroom floor.
A change in the location makes for a different approach. Using the kitchen counter as a support for the sub would likely bring a different sensation from using the bed. The floor also brings yet another experience altogether.
So whenever possible, alter the sex location for heightened feeling and spontaneity. This makes you a real pro at your game.
Instantaneously, your sub would enjoy the creativity and surprise adventure that crops when they least expect.
