Sometimes people hesitate a bit when talking to their doctors regarding their sexual health. To save you from embarrassment; Here are five things that your urologist secretly wants you to know.
- You should try the Premature Ejaculation App
There is a useful app that can help men all over the world to handle their symptoms of premature ejaculation.
The wondrous app is called? well, just that: Premature Ejaculation App, or PEA for short. This handy app is very helpful in that it can act as your virtual personal coach or therapist.
The app provides the user with useful tips daily to help remind them to engage in habits and activities that can help improve premature ejaculation.
Some of the tips that are provided include daily diet, physical exercise tips like Kegels for men, and what’s more? the app even creates a chart for you to track your progress.
That way you can be aware of how much progress you are making and you can see how much you have improved since the first day you started.
The app is priced at less than 4$ for download and provides extensions for web browsers as well.
- Your sexual dysfunctions aren’t always just physical
Since any sexual dysfunction is immediately noticeable by the penis – incapability to perform as expected, most men would fall into the impression that all kinds of sexual dysfunction are caused by some kind of physical illness.
This is not always the case as mental health problems can have a real impact on a man’s ability to maintain his performance between the sheets.
Sexual dysfunction, as per Mayo Clinic, can arise from a range of psychological and social factors. Neglected anxiety or depression, chronic stress, and a background of sexual abuse can all play a role in the development of this condition. Moreover, persistent conflicts with your partner, whether they revolve around sexual matters or other aspects of your relationship, can have a detrimental impact on your sexual responsiveness.
Yet, not that many people want to hear that their state of mentality is affecting their sexual performance, and as a result, many urologists try to hold back giving this information out of courtesy.
They wish they could convey to you that many young men even some older men, too experience sexual dysfunctions that are caused by stress, depression, and performance anxiety itself.
They wish they could refer you to a good behavioral therapist to help you out so you don’t have to suffer in silence.
- Stop being ultra-focused on performance
Urologists know best when it comes to men’s anxiety over bed performance.
But the thing is, the more worried a man becomes, the more the worry becomes real and then he finds himself actually unable to get it up.
As highlighted in an article published on WebMD, excessive stress can impede your ability to concentrate on sexual experiences, thereby hindering physical arousal. Numerous concerns can contribute to this issue, including the fear of underperforming in bed and failing to sexually satisfy your partner. These anxieties have the potential to result in sexual dysfunction, further complicating the situation.
Urologists have found it extra difficult to convince men not to continue to worry so much because this behavior seems to have attached itself to the male brain from a very young age.
If only they could give you advice, they would want to tell you that it is actually more important to enjoy sex in an intimate way, because sex with a partner should be all about intimacy and closeness.
Even studies have found that women much prefer an emphasis on intimacy, closeness, and emotional fulfillment through sex, rather than how amazingly their partners can mimic the actions of male porn stars, which are often very unrealistic.
- ‘Good performance’ isn’t just about penis size
Another thing related to performance which many urologists secretly want to tell men is that ‘good performance’ does not boil just to just how big a schlong a man possesses.
Sex with a woman is all about how your penis can touch her in the right places.
And by this time, you should already know how rare it is for a woman to experience orgasm through penile penetration alone.
Good sex is not just about using the penis to satisfy a woman’s body. You should be informed that entirely good sex relies a lot on communication, intimacy, and taking care of each other’s needs.
As for the penis itself, its good performance actually has more to do with how a man can use it in various ways. There is little point in having a good big dick if you know no good techniques at all.
- Take care of your heart to take care of your penis
A urologist may not be the first person you think about when it comes to heart health, but they sure do know a lot about the correlation between heart health and penis health.
In fact, the two are so closely linked that you can practically tell when something is wrong with one when the other experiences some kind of health issue.
The heart and the penis are interlinked with blood circulation and the health of blood vessels that carry blood around, including to the penis.
Based on the information provided on the ScienceDirect website, it is noted that erectile dysfunction can be influenced by a decrease in penile blood flow. This reduction is attributed to both endothelial changes in small arteries and the occurrence of corporal fibrosis, characterized by excessive collagen deposition. These factors are not only associated with erectile dysfunction but also have implications for cardiovascular health, as they can reflect similar endothelial dysfunction and fibrotic processes that occur in the heart.
With that said, urologists secretly want to tell their patients to take better care of their heart health if they want to avoid problems with their penis.
Habits that destroy the heart like smoking and drugs, for example, are surely bad for the penis.
Likewise, foods that are good for heart health, will certainly benefit the performance of the penis as well.
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- Stop blaming your issues on your partner
Some urologists want men to stop blaming their partners and take responsibility for their own mishandling of their penis.
Sometimes, men who make a visit to the urologist ask if their issues have anything to do with the partner.
In some cases, this may be true and when it does seem like internal issues with your partner have caused friction in your sex life, your doctor may even suggest you visit a counsellor or therapist.
But the thing is, when the doctor doesn’t seem to agree that your partner has anything to do with your penis situation, please don’t insist and try to be a good listener to the doctor.
Some men insist that their partner’s personality or behaviour has something to do with their sexual issues, but if that were the case, you wouldn’t be needing to see a urologist for physical conditions.
- When you see blood in your urine, please come to us immediately
Men typically like to stay quiet and discreet about issues relating to their penis (that they even hide from their partner or even doctor).
Although it is understandable that you have some fleeting pride to maintain, when you see blood in your urine, please throw that ride out of the window and come see your urologist immediately.
There are many things in life that a doctor does not need to see and those issues do resolve on their own. But seeing blood in your urine?
Nope, that’s not one of those. Seeing blood in your urine is never a good thing and you may never know that there is a severe condition you have not dealt with.
Internal bleeding could lead to scary severe conditions when left untreated. The complications that come from neglect could cost you your penis.
