Men have for long considered women to be mysterious in some ways. The feminine folks speak in parables, seek comments that result in an argument, and also complain unreasonably. So men feel that the best way to relate to women is to speak as little as possible. But this approach only worsens the situation. It seems that getting a woman to think about you is some foreign voodoo. But it’s possible. Below are the five tricks to make a woman obsessed with you.
- Take care of your looks and be attractive
Women do not and never will obsess over any guy who does not seem like he knows how to take care of his looks.
You may think it’s a harsh reality but what can you do when even guys drool over very sexy and high-maintenance ladies?
The expectation works both ways. AT any rate, even on a subconscious level, people like seeing other people who take care of their appearance because it shows confidence and self-love.
People obsess over other people who exude an aura of confidence and self-respect; that is just how it goes, folks.
According to Live Science, a science news website, a study was carried out involving young women between the ages of 15 and 29, as well as their mothers aged 37 to 61. The participants were tasked with assessing potential partners based on a series of photographs and accompanying descriptions. Surprisingly, the results indicated that the physical appearance of the men had a stronger influence on both groups of women compared to their personality traits.
Attractive people know how to wear nice things and make other people around them feel motivated or even inspired to live a better life.
This is how you firstly attract someone until they become obsessed with wanting to get to know deeper how you tick and everything else.
- Be soft-spoken and polite at all times
Believe this or not, in a world full of masculine men who think being masculine means being loud, rude, and downright disrespectful, a soft-spoken and polite man will be the centre of attraction instead.
You may think a soft-spoken man is a weak man, but if you are observant enough, look around you and the manly man who speaks to women politely and softly whilst still exuding top-notch masculinity are always the popular ones.
Men like that know how to stir a woman’s heart and they don’t have to be loud to be heard because they always have something nice or interesting to say.
Plus, the fact that they are different from the rest makes them coveted enough already.
After all, what kind of girl will be attracted to men who seem like he would easily shout at her when she makes a mistake?
- Be super talented at something
Please stop thinking that muscles and a big dick will make women fall on their knees and worship you.
Nowadays females are so empowered that they don’t even care about that kind of thing anymore.
Sure, it’s great to have chocolate abs, and girls giggle when they see that, but that’s just the top of the icing.
Women like men who have substance to their character and personality. And on top of all of that, mad talents call for the most respect… and also an obsession.
According to a publication on ScienceDirect, talent is highlighted as a highly attractive quality in men. The possession of a distinctive skill or ability that sets one apart from others is likely to significantly enhance one’s appeal to women. As a connection between individuals grows deeper and chemistry develops, the significance of physical appearance diminishes. Instead, having a natural aptitude or expertise in a specific domain tends to place individuals in a category of higher attractiveness.
With the fact that so many people nowadays are so confused about life and don’t know what to do with themselves, men who know what they want and pursue a talent in the field that they really care about become very attractive.
As a result of that, women want to always be around someone as impressive as that because they also feel inspired.
- Be a bit ridiculous and absurd
Have you heard that women like humorous guys?
People who are funny easily light up a room and women like funny guys because women themselves tend to be a bit more serious and uptight in comparison to men–collective speaking.
If you have ever seen how young girls watch endless hours of K-Pop videos of their favourite K-Pop boys, you will notice that something that entices them most of all is how ridiculous those boys are.
They do things that are abnormal and they have absurd reactions to normal things.
Girls like that because it makes their idols seem like they have a very interesting personality, and also a very unique perspective on life.
According to a recent study published on Pink Villa, an interesting data analysis conducted in the field of Evolutionary Psychology has shed light on the dynamics of humor between men and women. The findings indicate a fascinating trend: men tend to deliver a higher number of jokes, while women display an increased frequency of laughter. This discovery suggests that women are inclined towards men who possess a notable sense of humor, as evidenced by their heightened laughter response.
Of course, a ridiculous and absurd personality only becomes attractive when you are a talented person with tons of other charms–namely, that you are hardworking, honest, polite, good to your parents, etc.
- Be a tease, but also respectful
Like previously mentioned, a lot of girls can tend to be a bit uptight and serious. Not to mention the fact that so many females tend to be shy around guys.
With that said, you want to be a bit of a tease so you can make women obsessed with you.
Very shy girls tend to think nobody cares enough about them to want to flirt with them, so if you show some interest and be a little teasing with them, that will make their heart flutter.
Then, they will become even more curious about you and will try even to become more attractive to you.
Even though you may be able to pull this kind of trick off, at least be honest about it and don’t be breaking people’s hearts.
You know, even if you want to be a phoney, be a real phoney.
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- Learn to smile in a charming way
Yeah, everybody knows how to smile. But are you sure you know how to smile in a charming way?
For your information, we are not trying to say ‘cunning’, we specifically mean to smile charmingly. A lot of men can have attractive features to their face, but usually, it is the smile—or should we specify, the smirk—that melts other people’s hearts.
Men who have a charming way of either smiling or smirking stir a kind of curiosity in the minds of women. So, if you want to make any woman obsess over you, you may need to know how to do this trick miraculously.
What that means is, you want to improve the way you do something natural as smiling, but you don’t want to put so much effort that people can tell you are faking it. Don’t go overboard, okay?
- Learn to speak a foreign language
Women the world over are fascinated by bilinguals and polyglots. Men who know more than 1 or 2 languages score higher in terms of attractiveness in the eye of many women.
After all, a person who knows how to speak more than his own native language gives off the impression of someone who is cultured.
That also sparks in people more curiosity and that makes them want to know you more.
Also, if your extra language is coupled with actual knowledge about the culture where the language originates from, you score even higher. Be reminded that just knowing simple greetings in 10 different languages will probably not score you so high because that’s just shallow knowledge.
Flaunting the fact that you know how to introduce yourself in 10 different languages will most likely make you appear like a petty showoff. So, if this is your thing, at least be sensible about it.
