Want to enjoy sex more and improve your intimate life? Then change your sexual habits. These minute tweaking would allow you to become more sexually desirable while exuding sexual confidence. What are the behaviors that make you sexually virile? How do you adjust to adapt to the groove? And how do sustain this condition? Well, you need to learn and try them out. Here are five behaviors of a sexually healthy man that you can include in your lifestyle to become a stud.
- Respect other people’s boundaries
As an adult, you should know already that respect is very important in human relations. This, of course, applies to sexual relations as well.
A sexually healthy man will never be the kind of person who forces his ideas and wants unto the person he is having sex with.
Not only is that downright disrespectful, but it tends to also make the other person feel awful for being told to do something against their will.
On top of that, you yourself will gain some disrespect from the other person if you are wilful about your sexual ideas.
They could even leave you alone and not want to have anything to do with you anymore.
According to Verywell Mind, understanding an individual’s comfort level and personal boundaries relies heavily on effective communication. In addition to paying attention to their explicit statements, it is vital to be attuned to their non-verbal cues, such as tone of voice and body language. When someone clearly communicates their refusal or utters the word “no,” they are setting a definitive boundary. Respecting this boundary is of utmost importance, just as you would desire others to respect your own.
Not everybody shares the same kink, for example, and that is just a fact of life. So, a sexually healthy man knows how to accept this reality and have respect for other people’s boundaries.
- Talking about sex all the time won’t get you sex
Some men may think that talking about sex all the time will get them the sex they have been secretly wanting.
In reality, this behaviour is annoying, and most likely, the person who has to be the one listening to your greasy talk is probably highly uncomfortable and wants to quickly get away from you.
Men need to know how to talk about sex in a healthy, mature, and respectful way.
There is a proper time to start talking about sex depending on the situation and the mood that you share with the person you are thinking of having sex with.
Also, a sexually healthy man will be able to talk about sex in a way that doesn’t make it weird, dirty, or downright improper.
You could also try to learn about mannered speech that can be combined with friendly flirtatiousness to get you started.
- Be sophisticated instead of ‘greasy’
A lot of men can’t seem to tell the difference between being a tease and being greasy, and this is such a shame–because there are many attractive men who are simply greasy that women find them icky.
The term ‘greasy’ is often used to describe a man who is flirtatious but in a way that is unsophisticated that he makes women feel queasy with his teasing jokes.
If you want to be popular with the ladies, you should abandon this behaviour and instead try to adapt to situations so that you don’t get labelled as greasy.
People don’t like it when men tend to joke about sex all the time without knowing the timing nor being able to read the vibe.
So, if you want to become more sophisticated, you need to learn more about various topics of conversation beyond just sex. Make yourself appear charming and smart.
- Kiss sensually, not vigorously
As stated in an article on the Marriage Blog, scientific studies indicate that kissing and other forms of physical affection have a profound impact on couples. These intimate acts trigger the release of oxytocin, a hormone known for promoting emotional bonding. Oxytocin acts as a binding agent, strengthening the connection between partners and enhancing overall relationship satisfaction. Mastering the art of kissing is therefore crucial in cultivating a robust and gratifying relationship.
A lot of young girls describe their kissing experiences with young boys as totally wet and unprofessional.
Very young men tend to think that they have to kiss like a fish to make the person they are kissing aroused, but in reality, nobody quite enjoys feeling like their lips and entire face are being sucked by a really wet fish.
The key to kissing is sensuality rather than vigour.
Kissing hard and wild doesn’t make you a man, you know. And so, it also requires practice to be able to develop a natural sensitivity to how your partner likes to be kissed.
With that said, you need to learn more to develop your senses so you become a more sensitive lover.
Kissing a person sensually can also build very exciting momentum leading to the act of sex. A sexually healthy man knows how to be patient with his prizes.
- Be responsible and practise safe sex
Men who are not particularly sexually healthy don’t think about safety when it comes to sex.
All they care about is the instant gratification that can be obtained through being naked with another person.
This is not a very good behaviour to keep because sex can have a lot of dangers when not practised properly.
For one, there is the risk of passing around STD, but there is also the risk of getting someone else pregnant with an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy.
This could spell disaster for a lot of young people who are not yet ready for such a consequence.
A sexually healthy man is a man who can be patient and knows exactly what to do to prevent the dangers of sex from afflicting their lives.
If you want to enjoy a good sex life you need to exercise caution and be a responsible man.
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- Sexual communication
Most marital misunderstandings occur due to poor communication. Granted, you may anxious about certain issues and don’t want to alarm your spouse.
Or you may be busy and aren’t concentrating well enough to comprehend what your partner is talking about. Still, you may be outright rude and respond in a condescending tone.
Whichever of these approaches you use, you are doing poorly in the sexual communication department.
Intimate matters are sensitive and sentimental.
Hence communicating well is vital. Sexual communication allows you to explain what you want and how you are feeling.
Talking ensure that your sexual desires are met. Still, it offers an avenue to air your sexual concerns fear, preferences, and needs.
A report published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships concludes that better sexual communication results in greater sexual satisfaction.
Again the publication laments that sexual communication helps partners to achieve pleasurable and satisfying sexual experiences.
- Protection against STIs
Loving someone is special. And being that humans are social beings, intimacy is a fundamental human need.
Getting into a relationship isn’t without its fair share of challenges. From emotional turmoil, to stress and infections, intimacy could be risky.
One of the greatest risks is sexually-transmitted infections. You don’t know about your partner’s STIs status until they get tested.
Yet, falling in love could cloud sound judgment. Or you become so entrenched that you believe all that you are told at face value.
But the world is cruel and some psychopaths could manipulate your emotion to wreak your life.
A sexually responsible man is aware of these risks and takes steps to mitigate exposure. So he’ll bring his potential partner and discuss the risks associated with STIs.
STIs are known to cause stigmatization, infertility, and cancers. Besides, they complicate pregnancies and treatment, through drug resistance.
A sexually-healthy man prioritizes this topic and gets tested with a new partner to guarantee their sexual.
Sutter Health stresses the importance of using condoms consistently and correctly during sexual activity, as it plays a crucial role in minimizing the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Regardless of gender, prioritizing your health involves ensuring that you always have a condom readily accessible. By taking personal responsibility and carrying a condom, you are taking a proactive approach to protect your overall well-being.
