Sex is an integral part of human intimacy, and it has numerous physical and emotional benefits. That said, sexual time and frequency vary enormously between people, and can also vary across states. This raises the question: which states spend more time in bed and are more prone to sex?
The way to get a grip on this is by first knowing what drives the pattern and duration of sex. These can include age, gender, relationship, health and cultural and social expectations. Furthermore, many studies have been undertaken on how frequently and how long sex in states happens on average.
Perhaps the most famous was a 2015 study from the dating app Clover. They examined the data they’d collected from their users and found that New Mexico was the state in which people spent the longest amount of time having sex on average (7 minutes and 1 second). It was followed by West Virginia at 5 minutes and 38 seconds, and Idaho at 5 minutes and 11 seconds. The smallest average states were Alaska, which averaged 2 minutes and 21 seconds, North Dakota, which averaged 2 minutes and 42 seconds, and South Dakota, which averaged 2 minutes and 47 seconds.
But remember, this data is self-reported by people on a dating app, so they might not be a good representation of the entire population of each state. There are also many different factors that can influence the length of time spent having sex, including age, health, and relationships. Therefore, we can’t tell if states differ significantly in how long sex lasts.
According to another study, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), the average American adult has sex 54 times a year, or about once a week. But this number can vary a great deal from state to state. California, for instance, experiences the most sexual acts with an average of 80 per year, and Mississippi the least at 37 per year.
Duration of sex, however, is a subjective construct since it can be dependent on individual preference and methods. But a 2014 paper in the Journal of Sexual Medicine discovered that sex in the US lasts an average of 5.4 minutes. Again, this varies from state to state.
Cultural and social norms might play a role in explaining the variations in sex frequency and duration among states.
For instance, more sex-friendly states, like California and New York, might see more sexual activity. Similarly, less-conservative states, like Mississippi and Alabama, might have lower sex rates.
A third answer may be the climate and environment in which the men live.
One hypothesis has suggested that, during puberty, the penis grows longer as a result of warmer temperatures. It might be why states in the southern hemisphere, like New Mexico, Louisiana and Alabama, average longer penises than those in the northern hemisphere.
It also noted that states that are more obese have a shorter average penis length.
This might be because obesity has a negative effect on testosterone levels, which may alter the development of the penis during puberty.
Age and relationship status also determine how often and for how long sex occurs.
Researchers have demonstrated that young people and those newly engaged have more sexual experiences than older adults and those who are in long-term relationships. This might explain why younger states like California and New York are particularly sex-rich.
Sex, too, is influenced by health.
Sickness, drugs and stress all interfere with the sex drive and resilience of individuals. More severe states like West Virginia and Kentucky may have fewer instances and longer periods of sex.
But note that these are averages and not necessarily a reflection of the sexual lives of everyone in a state. And it’s not just those unobservable other variables, like preferences and techniques, that can make all the difference in the amount and length of sex.
But does time really correlate with sexual fulfilment?
The answer is both subjective and individualized. You might argue that the more time you have, the better your sex, but others might think that quality is more important than quantity. Ultimately, it’s all about what works for you and your partner.
And we should not forget that time isn’t the only thing that determines sexual satisfaction. Access, communication and connection are also essential for a successful sexual relationship.
But how can men enhance their sexual fitness regardless of where they live?
The best option is to make it a part of their routine to exercise daily. This not only boosts your health, but can also reduce stress and anxiety, which negatively affect sexual performance.
An alternative is to use mindfulness and remain in the now during sex. It can eliminate distractions and maximize pleasure to ensure that the sex session lasts longer.
Not to mention that sexual time isn’t the only marker of a satisfying sexual experience. Indeed, it is much more important how the sexual experience is conducted than its length. It’s important to speak to your partner and pay attention to fun and intimacy rather than just the duration of a sex encounter.
Conclusion:
In short, states can differ widely in their rates and duration of sex. Cultural and social values, age, relationship status and even health may all contribute to these disparities. California and New York are places where people tend to have sex more, but that’s everyone, and people’s sex may or may not differ based on where they’re living.
