Relationships should never build on small things like penis size or sexual life. It should depend on trust and love. But does penis size matter to have a happy and healthy relationship?
One crisp answer cannot be given here, as women’s preferences vary from ‘Size is Important’, ‘Somewhat Important’ to ‘Not Important.’
It really depends on the individual woman who gets to answer this question. The correct answer is her own answer. And that answer may not be the representative answer for other women.
At the end of the day, we are dealing with personal preferences that can vary depending on a person’s personality and even real-life experiences in the past. What does that even mean?
Yes, past experiences in sex could shape the perception of a woman about what she finds attractive about a man’s penis size.
With that in mind, there really is no single answer that can represent what “most women” think about penis size to make them happy in a relationship.
Some say that it is all about technique; some think that stamina matters more than size; some state that if one can put efforts in making overall sex experience great, size hardly matters; few say that girth is more important than length; some even say that as long as the thing is able to give waist-lifting orgasms, size doesn’t matter; some say that gigantic penis brings more pain so average works fine for them and very few say that size is very important.
You see, responses are of really a wide range.
You may think all women prefer a somewhat universal size (or at least a range of sizes) and that it stays the same for a person’s entire lifetime.
Such hopes and expectations in the way men think about what “most women” like in a man’s penis are very simplistic.
Such hopes and expectations are founded on insecurities and body image issues. So you ought to let go of such a thought pattern because it doesn’t represent the reality of what women want in a sexual partner.
You wish that all women were so simple-minded when it comes to their preferences, don’t you? They are easier to figure out that way, right? Or so you wish.
But in reality, these preferences may well change over time.
For instance, a girl in her early 20s may say “size doesn’t matter to me” only to find out later on in life that big sizes excite her more than anything.
In the same way, some girls may begin with liking the idea of a big penis in their vagina, only to experience that a big penis can cause great pain, so now they say the average penis is best.
Just like everything else in life, people’s opinions, ideas, as well as likes and dislikes change over time. And this is all influenced by their real-life experiences.
With that said, it is hard to pin down what will really make all girls say in unison “this makes me happy!”
Studies have shown that around 70% of men have from average to small size which is from 5 inches to lesser. And almost 80% to 85% of women are satisfied with their partner’s size.
Did that surprise you? Did you really think women are that hard to please if you don’t have a 6-inches?
That’s all a myth. Most girls do not care about a 6-inch penis. It’s all in the way you treat her and what you can do with your penis.
On the other hand…
It is apparently men, approximately 45%, who get conscious about their size and it matters the most to the men first, even before their women.
You could say even men are victims of myths and bad body image fallacies!
Here, the key is being confident about your body and using that confidence to generate pleasure and a memorable experience for your partner.
The reason behind why so many men are that conscious about their size is probably a hell of their making. Porn.
Yes, it is your years of watching porn sprinkled with special actors who are the ones beyond “normal” that have gotten you to think that “that” is what a good penis should look like.
In reality, men with such humongous sizes are rare. Pretty rare.
And if you are going to spend the rest of your life thinking that unless you have that kind of size you can’t make your partner happy, you need some serious growing up to do.
Speaking openly and honestly about your sex life with your partner should help remarkably, as it ensures that both are on the same page and more importantly, you can discover ways to spice up the sex life.
Having a small or average size penis does not make one less manly or incompetent to satisfy the partner.
There are many aspects of a relationship that matter equally including intimacy, love, and other emotional ones.
Intercourse is just one part of the sex and you can certainly add more vibrant colors to your lovemaking by exploring more parts and not just limiting yourself to focus only on the intercourse part.
With that said, you must learn until you understand well that a connection between two people is not JUST about sex.
Yes, sex is important, but it also needs other things to support it for it to be precious and important.
What about a sense of duty and care?
Even if a man has an amazing penis, if he never helps around the house and leaves the partner feeling exhausted and underappreciated all the time, chances are very high that the partner will not be satisfied in bed.
You can’t change that fact, especially because women really do operate based on feelings, emotions, and compassion. The more you disappoint her emotionally, the less she can enjoy sex with you.
So then, what should you do if you are aware that your size isn’t that marvelous and you want to have a happy relationship? Work on your personality and cultivate a gentlemanly attitude.
Know what it means to be a real man through your conduct. A man’s manliness is not just defined by his junk size; that is a pretty trashy mindset to have and that can’t bring you far in life.
Conclusion
Thanks for reading “Does Penis Size Matter To Have A Happy Relationship?”
Satisfying sex doesn’t revolve around size alone. Women perceive sex through experience.
Most men are averagely endowed and enjoy rewarding matrimony, with 85% of women mentioning size satisfaction.
Some women may shift from average to large and vice versa due to past sexual episodes. Other factors play a major role in nurturing a happy relationship.
Communication, trust, emotions, and compassion all add feathers to the happy relationship crown.
Thus penis size doesn’t matter in a good relationship.
