Good sex is about connection, sharing, and having fun. It’s not even about the size of your penis. But men with small-than-average penises can still feel slighted and think they’re unable to please their girlfriend or boyfriend. This could lead to severe performance stress, low self-esteem and even shying away from sexual intimacy. That’s not true because there are plenty of avenues to experience awesome, satisfying sex, no matter how big your penis. Here in this article we will cover the basics on how you can have good sex with a smaller than average penis.
1. Make it about pleasing your partner: Sex is a misconception that is based entirely on penetration. But that’s far from the case. Indeed, penetration alone does not usually give orgasm to most women. Rather, female sexuality is delivered through the most sensitive area of a woman’s body, the clitoris. Therefore, rather than care about your penis size, you need to care about making your partner happy through oral sex, hand-hold stimulation and other forms of foreplay. It will not only make your partner happy but also will make you feel more in control.
2. Try out new positions: Having different sex positions can give you and your partner different feelings. Try some deep penetration positions (dog style, missionary with a pillow under your partner’s hips). Or you can experiment with exercises that engage the clitoris, like the coital alignment technique (CAT) or the backward cowgirl. It takes communication and trial and error to figure out what’s right for you and your partner.
A. Doggy Style:
Doggy style is a position that can give you tons of enjoyment especially for guys with smaller penises. The angle will enable deeper penetration, and the position can irritate the partner’s G-spot or prostate. Using pillows or cushions under the receiver’s hips can add to the effect by bringing it to an even deeper angle.
B. Spooning:
Spooning is an intimatable, secure position, which permits shallow penetration, particularly useful for males with small penises. The position also allows for clitoral stimulation that can give both partners increased sexual satisfaction. A sex toy, like a mini vibrator, can make it even more fun.
C. The Reverse Cowgirl:
In this pose, the receptive partner is on top, away from the penetrating partner. This position provides for the ability to regulate the depth and penetration angle, allowing the recipient to customize to their liking and ease. This position also makes the clitoris accessible for manual stimulation.
3. : Get some sex toys : sex toys are one of the most convenient products to have in your sex bag, particularly for those men who have smaller penises. For instance, a penis sleeve can lengthen and grow your penis, rendering it more enjoyable for your partner. We can even use vibrators to stimulate the clitoral tract during sex. Just make sure you speak to your partner before bringing any toys into the bedroom.
4. Keep communication open with your partner: Communication is the backbone of any successful sexual relationship. Talk to your partner about your fears and anxiety. Just let them know that you would like to please them and get their feedback and advice. That will not only increase your self-confidence but also strengthen your bond with your partner.
5. Acquire sexual experience: Penis size does not define you, but sexual experience does. Be respectful of your partner’s body and what feels good. Listen to their body language and don’t be afraid to experiment. You can also enhance your sexual skills through books, educational videos, or sex workshops.
A. Communication:
Open communication is essential to any good sex relationship. Sharing desires, boundaries and dreams will help both partners identify needs and boost sexual satisfaction. Men with a small penis should talk about it with their partners and collaborate to come up with the positions and methods that work for them.
B. Foreplay:
Foreplay is a fundamental part of every sex session, and men with smaller penises can take advantage of it. By pursuing other sex stimuli – like oral sex, hand prodding or the use of sex toys – we can induce arousal and generate a more pleasurable sex experience.
C. Kegel Exercises:
Developing stronger pelvic floor muscles can lead to improved erectile function, sexual endurance and enhanced orgasm power. Men can do kegel by pulling the muscles that hold urine in place for a few seconds and letting it go. When you do this several times a day, sexual performance starts to increase.
6. Never try to measure yourself against others: Comparisons are addictive, especially if the criteria that pornography is imposing is not met. But don’t let it fool you: the way porn shows you what sex looks like is not the real thing. Each person has different body types and sexual preferences, and there is no ‘optimal’ way to have sex. Look for what you want to enjoy and what your partner wants to enjoy, instead of judging yourself against other people.
7. Accept your differences: Your penis size is a part of your individuality, and that isn’t a problem. Rather than view it as a vulnerability, take it as a positive part of your sexual journey. Being confident and loving yourself are attractive features that will only improve your sexual performance.
A. Confidence:
Confidence is one of the key aspects of sexual satisfaction. Accepting one’s body and sexual power can transform the sex experience dramatically. Smaller men’s penises should be put on display to demonstrate what they are good at, and what they bring to the sexual encounter, not what society expects of them or what they are not.
B. Body Positivity:
When you have a positive body image, men with small penises will feel more comfortable and confident in their own skin. Being surrounded by supportive, sex-positive people and watching body-diverse media can create a more positive self-image.
C. Education:
It is by learning about sexual anatomy, sex health, and pleasure that small penises can get the most out of their bodies and their partners. This information can give you better sex, greater self-esteem, and a better sexual experience.
So basically, the penis is too small for good sex. It is all more about enjoyment, communication, and experimentation. Do not think of sex as a sport or an act, but a shared, intimate and relaxing activity between two people. Following the above-mentioned tips, one can truly have incredible and satisfying sex with a massive penis.
