How to Try Mutual Masturbation – Introduction
Sharing masturbation can be a wildly intimate and enjoyable way to experience sex together. It allows partners to physically engage while getting to know each other’s bodies and needs in an informal environment. If you are looking into the practice of mutual masturbation, here are some advice and suggestions to get you started.
Understanding Mutual Masturbation
The mutual masturbation, when two couples stimulate one another while they’re together, can make a romantic connection stronger and bring more sexual pleasure. It can be a great way to broaden your sexual repertoire and experiment without the fear of penetrative sex.
Preparing for the Experience
Open Lines of Communication: Before diving headlong into shared masturbation, set up open lines of communication with your partner. Discuss your goals, limitations and what you want to get out of the experience. This discussion will make you feel more at ease and connected.
Set an Atmosphere: Set yourself in an environment that is comfortable. This might be your bedroom or another private space in which you both can relax. Think soft lights, cozy bedding, and maybe some tunes.
Set the Tone: Making the effort to create a comfortable vibe will improve the experience. Light the lights, light candles, or blast music to make it sexual. This may alleviate stress and boost sexuality.
The Experience
Start Slow: Building Anticipation
Especially for those of us unfamiliar with mutual masturbation, being exposed to someone you care about feels uncomfortable. Hence, starting slow is essential. You can start by simply looking at each other. This bonding can create a sense of expectation and anticipation that makes both parties feel at ease. By watching your partner, you are inviting other sensory systems to play and savour their body and movement as you prepare for this close-up experience. It’s a great way to get to know each other and do what feels good.
Take Turns: Focus on Individual Pleasure
If you’re not sure how to proceed, taking turns is a great idea. Let one player enjoy themselves while the other sits back and then swap partners. This approach permits the two partners to focus on their pleasure but continue to participate in each other’s pleasure. It puts no pressure on what feels right, and allows each partner to relax into their own rhythms and desires.
Incorporate Touch: Enhance Connection
When you both have some time to warm up to it, give it some physical contact. Let it begin with tender kisses — maybe by holding hands or stroking each other’s bodies. This intimacy can add to the pleasure between partners. This softness creates an emotional bond and amplifies the experience, becoming not a solemn movement but a shared touch that feels secure and familiar.
Explore Techniques Together: Communication is Key
As you get a little used to it, feel free to share tips and tricks that suit you personally. Let them speak in their own language about what is good — this may be talking about pressure, timing, and speed. This doesn’t just give your partner more knowledge of what you want; it also teaches them about ways to make your relationship more enjoyable. This conversation can make the experience more enjoyable because you start to notice what’s happening around you.
Use Props: Add Variety and Excitement
If both partners are brave enough, use props like sex toys during your joint masturbation sessions. Vibrators, dildos, even ordinary household objects can make your play exciting. Toys can increase stimulation, provide variety and enrich your shared experience. Make sure to speak to your different props ahead of time about whether they are comfortable for both of you and that it is not a stressful experience.
After the Experience
a. Post-Play Discussion: The Basis of Bonding
Go ahead, take a seat and meditate when the meeting is over. Be sure to share with them what went well, what surprised you, and what emotions you felt. Once again, the point of this open dialogue isn’t merely to talk about things we like and dislike, but also to give both partners a place to share their thoughts and emotions in a very real way.
For instance, in giving up the pleasure experienced, one might be able to declare oneself vulnerable, and another might declare oneself empowered by giving up that pleasure. So, by expressing these emotions, partners not only discover their other’s needs and desires but also experience increased emotional intimacy. Thus, future encounters are discussions of one’s own preferences for pleasure and intimacy filtered even more carefully.
b. The Importance of Aftercare
Aftercare is the main thing in any sexual relationship, particularly if it was a naked kind-like mutual masturbation. Aftercare exists to strengthen those emotional bonds that are formed in the session, and to remind participants and staff that they are both safe and loved. This can be anything: cuddling, tender caressing, or just lying next to each other in complete silence to reinforce this emotional bond.
These small exchanges of intimacy are precious. They allow the partners to collectively make sense of what has occurred and leave them with an air of warmness and fulfilment. Aftercare can help buffer highs and lows inherent in such very intimate encounters; it stabilises the situation and makes both parties feel as if they are being looked after.
c. Follow-Up: Creating Future Experiences
It’s important to continue to talk about what you’ve experienced after an aftercare period. Let your partner take a moment to evaluate how they feel about the experience and then have them share those emotions with you. Requesting for feedback in an open manner is a sign of commitment not only to excellence but to both satisfaction. This will provide a space for both parties to share what worked, what didn’t work and potentially new things to explore during subsequent sessions.
Feedback helps cement the foundation for future mutual masturbation. : Perhaps one of the techniques was particularly appealing, but another aspect was less rewarding; by announcing the technique to one another, you each make the next experience more meaningful and pleasant, thereby expanding the circle of intimacy and connection.
Conclusion: How to Try Mutual Masturbation
Combined masturbation can be a fun and enlightening way for two individuals to strengthen intimacy and sexual knowledge. By focusing on communicating, relaxing and exploring, you and your partner can create a fun and meaningful time that cements the relationship. As always, it’s not about achieving anything in particular, it’s about being comfortable exploring each other’s bodies together. Happy exploring!
