The size of a man’s penis has been both curious and controversial for hundreds of years. It started with Greek statues; now it’s porn, expressing what is supposedly the ‘perfect’ size of a man’s penis. But in recent years there has been a mounting concern about the demands that men place on them to have a big penis, and how that impacts a man’s sense of self-worth. It raises the question of how much is too much in terms of length and girth of the penis.
Historical Context
The penis-sizing obsession is hardly new. Historically, human cultures have focused heavily on male genitalia as a manifestation of masculinity, strength and beauty. In ancient societies, including the Greeks and Romans, larger-than-life phalluses were ubiquitous in art and literature, testament to the male organ’s importance.
In the recent past, the perception of the man’s penis size has continued, fuelled by public pressure and the media. We’ve seen big is better everywhere from commercials to pornography so the idea that bigger is better has become ubiquitous.
Size isn’t the only determinant of sexual satisfaction.
Indeed, research has demonstrated that women are far more likely to experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation than penetration. This does not necessarily imply that a longer and thicker penis means a more enjoyable sex experience for a woman. Additionally, a penis that is too large actually puts women in a lot of pain and distress when it comes to sex, making it less fun for both sides.
Conversely, a small penis can lead to male insecurities and low self-esteem. This can create anxiety around performance and prevent them from truly enjoying sexual encounters. But keep in mind that there are a number of ways and positions that can be incorporated to get as much fun as possible for both partners regardless of their penis size.
Let us begin by saying that the average males’ penis is a different size.
Let’s start with the length problem. An erect penis averages between 5.1 and 5.9 inches, while over 6 inches are deemed above average. However, men may feel ashamed if they have a penis less than this length and therefore want to find ways to make it longer. It can be exercises, devices, or surgery. A bigger penis may be visually desirable, but size does not necessarily equate to sexual enjoyment. Indeed, according to one paper in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, just half of women thought longer penises were sexually more enjoyable.
Let’s move to girth, the average circumference of an erect penis is 4.8 inches, and anything greater than 5.1 inches is considered above average. But just like with length, some men crave girth to appear more dominant and sexually desirable. But thicker penises might not necessarily mean better sex performance. In fact, a thicker penis might cause some partners discomfort or even pain, especially when positioned in certain sexual positions. You must also take into account that a larger penis might not sit well in certain condoms, making it more likely to break.
Second, it’s important to know that there is no “perfect” penis size. All people have their own body shape and all of the different sizes of penis are considered normal. Not to mention, it’s not just penis size that makes sex enjoyable. Communicating, bonding, ecstasy and foreplay are some of the many aspects of a satisfying sex experience.
But there are occasions when a penis is “too much”. Some men may have a disease called macrophallus that causes the penis to be too big. This can lead to physical discomfort and even challenges in sexual intimacy. In these instances, medical intervention may be required.
Bigger is always better when it comes to the size of the penis, which is a misconception spread by society and the media.
Most men are under compulsion to fit into a mold that, according to some standards, can be made possible either through porn or inflated advertisements from brands that sell products to make them look bigger. But no scientific study suggests that larger penises are more pleasurable for a partner.
Indeed, researchers have demonstrated that what’s most relevant to sexual satisfaction is not the size of the penis, but rather how well partners communicate and feel one another. The Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that women who experienced the most sexual satisfaction were more likely to value emotional intimacy and communication over penis size.
Furthermore, having a bigger penis is also a burden and a danger to your health.
The disorder called Peyronie’s disease, in which the penis develops scar tissue and flexes, may be more prevalent in men with large penises. Sometimes, this causes pain in the genitals and difficulties getting or maintaining an erection. The bigger the penis, the greater your chance of injury during sex.
One more issue that the over-emphasis on penis size poses is the damage it can do to a man’s confidence and wellbeing. Males who find themselves feeling inadequate for their size suffer from anxiety, depression and body dysmorphic disorder. It can negatively impact their relationships and wellbeing.
Even more importantly, the size of a man’s penis does not characterise his masculinity or sexual prowess. Every man is different and has his own things that make him attractive and desirable. Penis size alone dismisses everything else that is relevant in a man’s personality and temperament.
Finally, what matters most to sexual satisfaction is communication and compatibility. Each partner needs to be transparent about his or her tastes and wants, and figure out what pleases the other in a way that is compatible. This might include trying out various positions, toys or other modalities, or even just keeping an eye on other sexual pleasures other than penis size.
Future Developments
For the future, there will always be newer research about the size of your penis, and new studies and new medical technology will dictate the landscape of sex health and wellness. The greater our knowledge of human sexuality, the more the need for a balanced, multifaceted analysis of penis size and function will become clear.
Additionally, the normalisation and destigmatisation of conversations about penis size can encourage positive attitudes and actions in relation to sexual health, so that people can approach worries and challenges with knowledge and trust. If we can foster a more inclusive and accepting stance on sexuality, we can instill a culture that’s open to differences and self-compassion without toxic stereotypes and unrealistic expectations.
Conclusion:
In short, what is excessive penis size depends less on society and more on self-pity. The truth is, there is no “correct size.” According to some, it is the emotional receptivity and interaction between lovers that matters. Men shouldn’t be expected to fit into any particular shape. They should be more concerned with their overall health and fitness than their penis size.
