The Beginner’s Guide to Putting Toys up Your Butt

Anal play is a common form of sexual play that can be intensely pleasurable and sexually stimulating for people of all sexes and identities. One option for making this experience even better is to use anal-themed toys. But for beginners, anal toys can be overwhelming and intimidating. In this article, we will attempt to offer a clear but not overwhelming explanation of the basics of playing with toys up your butt that are safe and fun for everyone involved.

Choosing the Right Toy:

You need to think about several things before purchasing an anal toy, such as shape, size, material, and features.

Type: Anal toys come in all types of shapes, such as plugs, beads, and dildos. Plugs are the best option for novices because they fill and are easy to use and remove. Beads are formed in progressively larger balls, giving a slow-growing feeling of extensibility and depth. Dildos are suitable for anal play but would be best suited to more experienced players due to their length and thickness.

Size: Size is a very important aspect for novices because trying to push in a toy that is too big will cause pain or damage. You should start with a slim, small toy for the first time, for example – say, a plug that’s 1 or 1.5 inches diameter. Once you are comfortable with anal play, you can slowly raise the size of the toy.

Anal toys are made from various material such as silicone, glass, stainless steel, and rubber. Silicone is a great choice for beginners as it is soft, malleable, and impervious. Glass and stainless steel toys, which are not porous and easy to clean, are also non-porous and may be stiffer than silicone toys. Rubber toys, however, are porous and potentially bacterial, which makes them less hygienic than silicone, glass or stainless steel.

Features: Some anal toys are equipped with vibrations, suction cups, or a remote control. These functions can add value to the experience, but you don’t have to be a beginner to benefit from it. Some users find the vibrations intense, so start with a non-vibrating toy.

Preparation:

If you want to insert a toy into your anus, it is essential that you clean the site before you do so. The steps are the following:

1. Empty Your Bowels

Your most critical step prior to anal play is emptying your bowels. This not only keeps any accident from occurring, but also increases your experience. Most people like to urinate before play. If you’re nervous, try a light squat before hand, but make sure to check with a doctor first.

2. Clean Your Toy

A word about hygiene when it comes to anal play. Your toy should be cleaned thoroughly before and after use to prevent infection. Wash your toy in warm water and a mild, non-scented soap and ensure that all areas are washed thoroughly. Dry your toy completely after you have washed it and place it in an enclosed space. All toys have cleaning instructions, so always read those if you can.

3. Use Lubricant

The anus lacks natural lubrication, which is why you need lubricant, in contrast to other parts of the body. When you pick a lubricant, make sure it’s compatible with your toy material. When dealing with silicone toys, choose a water-based lubricant as silicone products wear the surface of the toy. Applying plenty of lubricant will allow for easier and more comfortable insertion.

4. Take It Slow

The key to anal play is patience. When you’re ready to drop the toy, do so slowly and softly. Listen to your body as you go; if you’re feeling any pain or discomfort, pull yourself off. It’s a forceful way to damage and ruin the plaything. Don’t worry about it, be patient and relax.

5. Relax Your Body

Anal play can cause a sense of dread, particularly for beginners. But slumber is essential to the enjoyment. First, take deep, relaxing breaths that relax your body. You may also need to take some time to stretch or relax before you start. The more comfortable and open-minded you are, the more fun and relaxed it will be.

Safety:

When using anal toys, remember safety first. A few safety tips to remember:

1. Choose the Right Toy

The first logical step towards safe anal play is picking the right tool for the job. Always pick toys made for anal use. These are engineered with safety features for safe inserting and retrieving. Most notable of these is the flared base that prevents a toy from being lodged inside the rectum. But toys marketed for other purposes, such as vaginal dildos, may not be, and should not be administered through the mouth. If you want more health and safety, focus on body-friendly toys.

2. Put Extra Safety with a Condom

It’s fairly easy to affix a condom to your anal toy, simple ways to increase play safety. This not only avoids bacterial issues, but can make cleaning your toy easier afterward. Anal toys can transmit germs from the rectum and transfer them to other parts of the body, especially when not properly disinfected. Using condoms reduces this danger by making the experience healthier.

3. Not Sharing Toys

The worst thing about sharing – which is sometimes a wonderful part of intimacy -is that sharing anal toys dramatically raises the risk of infection and bacteria transmission. If you intend to share the toy with another person, use a condom and wash the toy immediately. If possible, keep anal toys assigned to each child for hygiene reasons and to prevent infection.

4. Listen to Your Body

Probably the most important advice when it comes to anal play is to listen to your body. No pleasure is ever connected to pain or discomfort. If you experience any pain, discomfort, or bleeding post- or during anal play, you must immediately stop. If you stay the course, you’ll suffer irreparable harm. As soon as these symptoms reoccur and get worse, please, please, please seek medical attention; health and safety come first.

Conclusion: The Beginner’s Guide to Putting Toys up Your Butt

Anal play with toys is an enjoyable and therapeutic activity for a beginner. Use the information in this guide to make sure your anal play is safe and enjoyable. Remember, the anus is delicate, so be patient, take your time, and listen to your body. Happy playing!