PE is something that man knows about and is scared of it. But men can avoid it; one of the ways is through sex positions. What are the best sex positions to avoid PE?
Coming too quickly than expectations does not only add more anxiety to men but also makes them feel embarrassing.
Most men agree that a good performance needs to be long. Many men strive for almost impossible ideals like 8 hours or 10 hours. But in reality, just 2 hours is already amazing.
With all of that said, when a man actually falls short of the expected standard, the sense of emasculation can be quite dreadful.
On top of that internal sense of shame, when a man realizes that women cannot be satisfied within a short amount of time, that sense of being a failure gets intensified.
And so, premature ejaculation becomes one of the most dreaded sexual dysfunctions in the minds of many men.
Fortunately, there are few sex positions to rescue from this problem as well as to have a rocking experience.
If you notice, later on, the most common trait shared by most of these sex positions is “level of difficulty”.
Yes, a man who deals with premature ejaculation needs to train himself to be able to perform complex sex positions.
Way to go to improve your creativity to compensate for the duration you typically can’t achieve.
The key here as to why such difficult sex positions are helpful for men who suffer from PE is that they take away full concentration from the penis.
You can’t help it that difficult sex positions require a great deal of concentration to pull off.
This then reduces your focus on just the penis and thus, you are able to hold back your urges to have an ejaculation.
When you try to pull off a difficult sex position, the focus on your performance can also take away sensitivity from your penis.
Of course, not to the point of you not being able to feel pleasure. It is just that sensations get reduced, so then, you’re not as easily excited.
When this is managed well, you will be spared the humiliation of coming off before you intend to.
If you are at the stage where you are unfamiliar with these complex sex positions, it is okay to try them several times until you find the sex position that is comfortable for you.
It’s all trial and error, and as long as you make an effort, your partner would be appreciative of your hard work. So don’t give up before trying anything new.
There are several sex positions available so you can try and explore what works for you before you decide to stick with what feels great for both you and your partner.
One such position is ‘Standing Ovation’, in which he needs to stand near the bed, or a table and she needs to lay down on the flat surface of the bed or table.
You may consider adding a soft pillow for a more comfortable experience below the bottom back of her.
With this, the pelvic area of her will be lifted and though he is in a standing pose, it will allow deeper penetration.
This position will ensure to have complete control with the man whether to speed-up or slow down or even taking a break.
Ask your partner to be a little patient with you during this time as you are likely to try out different approaches until you feel good.
Your partner may not get her pleasure right away though. So you need to be extra respectful of her needs, too.
‘Spooning’ is another great sex position for delaying premature ejaculation. Spooning is when you try to penetrate your partner from the rear, but you both are in a sleeping position.
To do this sex position, you both need to be lying down in bed comfortably. Then, your partner will be facing away from you and you try to penetrate her from behind.
This position will make it impossible for you to penetrate her too deeply, so the light sensation will make sensations on the tip of your penis a lot reduced.
You also have better control as your partner becomes passive.
‘Sitting position’ is one of the popular positions, yet very few might be knowing that it too helps to control the orgasm. This can be done either by sitting on the chair or even the bed.
The beauty of this position is that it allows her to sit by facing towards him and also facing the same direction as him – both directions will ensure equal pleasure with long-lasting feelings.
This position does not allow him to do deep and long thrusts. Since the control is with her, she can decide whether to sit more down and go deeper or just play a bouncing game.
Another very common position ‘Women on top’, also named ‘Cowgirl’ helps in preventing the early fall.
Since in this, again your girl has the control of penetration, let her allow to concentrate on doing it as per her way and her pleasure.
All he has to do is just to lay down and enjoy the expressions of her.
This position has different variants also like ‘Reverse Cowgirl’ or ‘Reverse Rider’ as the name implies, it is quite understandable that her face would be in an opposite direction and she has to ride; another one is ‘Pole Position’ in which he has to bend one leg making it like a pole for her to hold for support and she needs to straddle the bent leg with a thigh on either side, with her back facing him.
In this too, since all the riding is done by her, you can simply lay down and cooperate while she takes the charge.
Lastly, you should also try spending more effort and time on foreplay. If your main goal is the sexual satisfaction of your partner above your own, then this is the smart thing to do.
As you may already know, females can enjoy great sex without the use of a penis. Other body parts can equally–if not more–stimulate a woman’s sensitive spots.
Be creative and learn techniques that incorporate the use of your fingers, lips, and tongue. These body parts can surely turn a woman crazy with pleasure.
And you know it, too, that you can also derive so much pleasure from hearing her moan and knowing she wriggles like a snake when you hit the right spots.
When all parties are lit and you both are ready for the penetration, then don’t forget to use one of the sex positions mentioned above.
Also, anytime you feel like you are about to jump with excitement, just take a break and take a deep breath several times.
This will reduce your excitement and rebalance you back to center yourself before you move those hips again.
Conclusion
Thanks for reading “What Are The Best Sex Positions To Avoid Premature Ejaculation?”
To conclude, premature ejaculation brings embarrassment and anxiety to most men. But some sex positions postpone this untimely release.
Difficult sex poses distract you from concentrating on sex, thus could cause a viable distraction that helps to prolong sexual activity. Standing ovation is one such style.
Spooning only affords a shallow penetration, thus reducing the intense sensation. Similarly, a sitting position also creates the same feeling.
Woman-on-top ensures that your penis is fighting gravity and the woman is in control. Thus, it allows you full enjoyment without much pressure, delaying your ejaculation.
