Penis size is one of the debates in the history of human affairs. While some men and women believe that a large penis is a sign of masculinity, strength and virility, others are ready to deny that it is important, and that size is in no way a marker of sexual enjoyment. This argument has caused great confusion and insecurity among men who do not feel that their penis is larger than they want it to be. In this paper, we explore whether or not penis size really matters and if it does not.
When Penis Size Matters:
1. Pleasure and Sensation
One of the primary reasons why the size of your penis is important is because it influences the sensation and enjoyment of sexual intercourse. The vagina is a highly porous structure that can stretch to fit any size, but the larger the penis, the more you will feel fuller and more stimulated. That’s because the penis has a larger surface area and can penetrate the vagina, producing more intense orgasms for both parties.
2. Self-Confidence
Men’s self-confidence and self-worth depend on the size of their penis. It’s the result of cultural pressure and assumptions that a bigger penis is synonymous with masculinity and sexual strength. Therefore, a smaller penis increases feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. Sometimes, it even impairs a man’s sexuality and causes relationship trouble.
3. Sexual Positions
And there’s another place where the size of your penis plays a role: in sexual positions. Some positions (like the doggy style or the backward cowgirl) require a longer and fuller penis for better penetration. If so, a smaller penis may fail to dig in as deep as desired, which restricts the variety and pleasure of sexual encounters. And that can be frustrating for both partners.
4. One-Night Stands
Size may not be an issue in a serious relationship, but it is during random sex. One-night stands and casual hookups have less heartfelt interaction and more emphasis on adolescent pleasure. In these cases, a bigger penis is often a more desirable and attractive size, as it can give a better sexual experience.
5. Pornography
We can’t ignore the impact of pornography on our ideas about sex. Pornographic films cast members for their huge penises and thus set unattainable expectations on men and women. This can translate into frustration and disappointment in a sexual encounter in the real world, for instance, when a man’s penis fails to compare with what you see in porn.
When Penis Size Doesn’t Matter:
1. Emotional connection and intimacy
Emotional intimacy and attachment are at the core of a satisfying sexual relationship. The intimacy and mutual trust between two partners can bring greater enjoyment and fulfillment to sexual activity. In this context, the size of the penis doesn’t matter because it is the relationship between two people that counts. The point would be to make it safe and comfortable for both men and women to explore each other’s bodies and not fret over how big their genitals are.
2. Sexual technique and communication
Sexual technique and communication are the keys to a memorable bedroom experience. Good communication also allows couples to explore sex positions and methods that might create arousal and pleasure for both partners. It isn’t the size of the penis that counts, but the usage and the communication between partners. Smaller penises allow small men to please their partners, recognizing their wants and desires and varying methods of activating their partner’s erogenous regions.
3. Sexual arousal and stimulation
Another consideration that eliminates the size of the penis from consideration is sexual stimulation and arousal. The clitoris (the most delicate organ of the female reproductive tract) sits outside the vagina and is stimulated either by oral or manual stimulation. This means that a man with a diminished penis can still satisfy his lover by attending to other erogenous sites and pushing them in with his hands and mouth. Indeed, research has revealed that female orgasm is best achieved through clitoral stimulation, making the size of the penis irrelevant in this regard.
4. Sexual compatibility
Sexual compatibility is one of the essential components of a good sex relationship. It is defined by the degree to which two people have identical sexual desires, desires and needs. It has nothing to do with the size of your genitals. Indeed, sexual compatibility has more to do with the emotional and physical relationship between two partners than the physical characteristics of their bodies. If you have sex with two people, penis size doesn’t matter because you can indulge each other according to your own wants and requirements.
5. Self-confidence and self-love
Penis size, finally, doesn’t have any bearing on your self-esteem and self-worth. Men do not measure their self-worth in terms of how big their penis is. Men with smaller penises tend to have low self-esteem and confidence due to social expectations. Yet penis size is only one part of a person’s body, and is in no way an indicator of their value or sexual prowess. Respect for one’s body and self-love is the key to a happy and healthy sex life.
Conclusion:
In short, the question of whether or not penis size matters is extremely complicated. Perhaps because society or societal insecurities would like it to feel as if it is an important matter, but a man’s worth, or sexual ability, is not determined by his penis size. Maybe it should, but it shouldn’t be the deciding factor in sexual relationships. Instead, what is important is how to talk, feel, and have sex for a productive, rewarding sex experience. We need to know that no two people are alike, and there is no “perfect” penis size. All I care about most of all is accepting your body, accepting your differences, and being focused on the joy and love not the size.
